9 Tips for Flying with a Toddler

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I have been flying with my son since he was a one year old. Every flight has been different and unique because we never know what to expect. We just cross our fingers and hope for best, but also plan for the worst. Flying with a toddler can be a challenging experience, but with some careful planning and preparation, you are less likely to lose your cool. So here are my tips for flying with a toddler.

Book the Right Flight Time

Choose a flight time that aligns with your toddler’s schedule. I personally try to avoid times where I know my toddler will be cranky. For longer flights, I try to book around times that I know he will nap most of the flight. You know your child better than anyone, so choose your flights wisely. Otherwise, just go with the best price and hope for the best.

If your child is under two and you can afford to get them their own seat, do it. It is so worth it for your toddler to be more comfortable and stretch out during the flight.

Let Go of the Usual Rules

If you usually have set limit on screen time or when your kid can have snacks, now is the time to let those rules go. You can re-establish the rules once you get settled. It’s easier than you think to get back into routine.

Dress for Ease & Comfort

Your toddler should wear clothing that is easy to take on off. Jackets, shirts, pants and shoes should be able to slip on and off with ease.

Make sure you dress comfortably as well because you may need to move around more than usual when flying with a toddler.

Pack An Essentials Bag

Make sure to have all of your essential things easily accessible. When traveling with a toddler, one hand is always usually occupied, so being able to grab something quickly (whether it is wipes or a snack) is key. As a bonus, organize your items into zip bags or pouches to easily identify what you need.

Make a Variety Snack Bag

Bring a variety of snacks and drinks that your toddler enjoys. Pack snacks that are easy to handle and that your child can hold on their own such as:

Pack Entertainment

Bring a variety of toys, books, and activities to keep your toddler occupied during the flight. For flights, I like to have new or special toys that will keep my toddler entertained. Keep a library of fun shows downloaded on the iPad to ensure there is always something to watch if needed.

Make sure all devices are fully charged and bring a backup portable charger.

Get a Toddler-Sized Backpack

Your toddler should have his/her own backpack. You should fill the backpack with toys, games, books and snacks. It should be a fun bag to keep them occupied.

Make sure to keep the backpack light enough so your toddler can carry it by himself and feel independent.

Know When to Board

Many airlines offer families with young children the option to pre-board. Take advantage of this to get settled and organized before the rush of other passengers. Or you can have your partner board beforehand to set up, while you and your toddler wait to be one of the last to board. Some people do this in order to be seated on the plane for a shorter time period. You may need to see what works best for you and your family, but I usually just board early and get settled.

Take note of the boarding time, so you can take your toddler to the restroom just before boarding the plane.

Bring the Right Traveling Gear

Some toddlers may require a traveling car seat and a travel stroller is a must when flying with a toddler. I recommend getting the smallest and lightest car seats and strollers that you can afford, to make getting through the airport a breeze.

If you know you will need to rent a car seat once you get to your destination, it may be easier just bring your own. And travel strollers are a life saver for breezing through airports, especially when your toddler gets tired.

Know That It Gets Easier

Flying with a toddler is challenging and preparation is key. Having a well-thought-out plan and essential items on hand can make the experience more manageable for both you and your child. And speaking from experience, I promise it will get easier with each flight.

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